Ratha David Loun's Best of 2010's
Ratha David Loun shot by Ratha David Loun, Blowing Rock (2016)
The 2010’s Briefly by Ratha David Loun
When I look back on the 2010’s, there’s so much I could write about if only I hadn’t written it already. This decade started off on fire. I was in the moment, soaking up inspiration from every which way. I felt everything to the core. If I was high, I was astronomically-high shining bright with the stars. If I was low, I was deep beyond the depths of valleys and caskets beneath it all. Powerful emotions are a double-edged sword that I miss sometimes when I stay up late. Towards the latter part of the decade, I became caught up in inconsistency. It’s like I traded being naïve and youthful for understanding and regret. Yet and still, I’m appreciative. This decade I got to see my favorite basketball player for the first and only time during his farewell tour in 2016. I also got to see my favorite football player for the first time as well, which he led my beloved San Diego Chargers to a 17-point comeback. I’ve grown, I’ve loved and learned to love again, and I’ve met some incredible people along the way.
There was an occasion in high school when I trespassed on the pedestrian bridge on US-1 right before the Glenwood exit with a girl I was intrigued by at the time. We stayed up for hours walking and talking about working at Andy’s, past experiences, and life. We ended the night at Waffle House around 2 in the morning. Months later, she revealed to me that our conversation that night, when getting to know each other, made her fall in love with me. I think about that sometimes when I convince myself I’m in love or when I believe myself to be falling into love. Though the process may be gradual or instantaneous, at what moment did I know? I’m rambling, but that isn’t the point. The kid who had that conversation with her on a cold December night in 2010, I hope his life is still a wildfire of emotion, inspiration, and youthfulness in a parallel universe because if only I could have a conversation with him, I’d ask him how to rekindle what’s left of this dimly-lit flame of mine.
Thank you to everyone who has kept up with me this past decade, whether it be from memoirs4rmayoungeryou to the running diary to where we’re at now, I am forever grateful for anyone who has taken the time out of their day to read even just a sentence of my writing. I hope going into this new decade will bring a new beginning for those of us in need and a continuation of joy for those of us hitting our stride.
Here’s to living our best lives in the new roaring 20’s health-wise, financially, and emotionally.
I love you all.
Below are some of my favorites from the 2010’s, an unbelievable decade.
Best Moment of the Decade: Meeting my son, Bagel the God, 2012
Bagel, on our first night together Saturday November 17th, 2012.
Song of the Decade: Work - Rihanna (feat. Drake), 2016
Rap Song of the Decade: Devil in a New Dress - Kanye West (feat. Rick Ross), 2010
Other Great Rap Songs from the 2010’s:
Rap Album of the Decade: Take Care - Drake, 2011
Other Great Rap Albums from the 2010’s:
My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy - Kanye West, 2010
Victory Lap - Nipsy Hussle, 2018
Man on the Moon II: The Legend of Mr. Rager - Kid Cudi, 2010
Mixtape of the Decade: Nostalgia, Ultra - Frank Ocean, 2011
Other Great Mixtapes from the 2010’s:
Kush & OJ - Wiz Khalifa, 2010.
Firday Night Lights - J. Cole, 2010.
Detroit - Big Sean, 2012.
R&B Song of the Decade: Novacane - Frank Ocean, 2011
Other Great R&B Songs from the 2010’s:
Best Non-Rap/Non-R&B Song of the Decade: Stars, fun., 2011
Other Great Non-Rap/Non-R&B Songs from the 2010’s:
Best Film I’ve Watched this Decade: Silence of the Lambs, 1991
Other Great Films I’ve Watched in the 2010’s:
American Beauty, 1999
First They Killed My Father, 2017
Silver Linings Playbook, 2012
Eyes Wide Shut, 1996
Good Will Hunting, 1997
Back to the Future, 1985
Akira, 1988
Baraka, 1992
Adventureland, 2009
Best Television Series I’ve Watched this Decade: The Cosby Show, 1984
Other Great Television Series I’ve Watched in the 2010’s:
How To Make It In America, 2010
A Different World, 1987
The Office, 2005
Best Book I’ve Read this Decade: Not Fade Away: A Short Life Well Lived - Laurence Shames and Peter Barton, 2004
Other Great Books I’ve Read in the 2010’s:
The Opposite of Loneliness - Marina Keegan, 2014
Fresh Off the Boat - Eddie Huang, 2013
Eleanor & Park - Rainbow Rowell, 2014
Best Sports Moments of the 2010’s:
Lakers 16th (Kobe’s 5th) NBA championship, 2010
Philip Rivers’ 14 point 4th quarter comeback on Thursday Night Football at Arrowhead, 2018
Duke’s 5th (Coach K’s 5th) National Title, 2015