Ratha David Loun's Best of 2010's, 12.31.19

Ratha David Loun's Best of 2010's

 

Ratha David Loun shot by Ratha David Loun, Blowing Rock (2016)

 

The 2010’s Briefly by Ratha David Loun

When I look back on the 2010’s, there’s so much I could write about if only I hadn’t written it already. This decade started off on fire. I was in the moment, soaking up inspiration from every which way. I felt everything to the core. If I was high, I was astronomically-high shining bright with the stars. If I was low, I was deep beyond the depths of valleys and caskets beneath it all. Powerful emotions are a double-edged sword that I miss sometimes when I stay up late. Towards the latter part of the decade, I became caught up in inconsistency. It’s like I traded being naïve and youthful for understanding and regret. Yet and still, I’m appreciative. This decade I got to see my favorite basketball player for the first and only time during his farewell tour in 2016. I also got to see my favorite football player for the first time as well, which he led my beloved San Diego Chargers to a 17-point comeback. I’ve grown, I’ve loved and learned to love again, and I’ve met some incredible people along the way.

There was an occasion in high school when I trespassed on the pedestrian bridge on US-1 right before the Glenwood exit with a girl I was intrigued by at the time. We stayed up for hours walking and talking about working at Andy’s, past experiences, and life. We ended the night at Waffle House around 2 in the morning. Months later, she revealed to me that our conversation that night, when getting to know each other, made her fall in love with me. I think about that sometimes when I convince myself I’m in love or when I believe myself to be falling into love. Though the process may be gradual or instantaneous, at what moment did I know? I’m rambling, but that isn’t the point. The kid who had that conversation with her on a cold December night in 2010, I hope his life is still a wildfire of emotion, inspiration, and youthfulness in a parallel universe because if only I could have a conversation with him, I’d ask him how to rekindle what’s left of this dimly-lit flame of mine.

Thank you to everyone who has kept up with me this past decade, whether it be from memoirs4rmayoungeryou to the running diary to where we’re at now, I am forever grateful for anyone who has taken the time out of their day to read even just a sentence of my writing. I hope going into this new decade will bring a new beginning for those of us in need and a continuation of joy for those of us hitting our stride.

Here’s to living our best lives in the new roaring 20’s health-wise, financially, and emotionally.

I love you all.

Below are some of my favorites from the 2010’s, an unbelievable decade.

Best Moment of the Decade: Meeting my son, Bagel the God, 2012

 
Bagel, on our first night together Saturday November 17th, 2012.

Bagel, on our first night together Saturday November 17th, 2012.

 

Song of the Decade: Work - Rihanna (feat. Drake), 2016

 
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Rap Song of the Decade: Devil in a New Dress - Kanye West (feat. Rick Ross), 2010

 
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Other Great Rap Songs from the 2010’s:

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Rap Album of the Decade: Take Care - Drake, 2011

 
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Other Great Rap Albums from the 2010’s:

My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy - Kanye West, 2010

My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy - Kanye West, 2010

Victory Lap - Nipsy Hussle, 2018

Victory Lap - Nipsy Hussle, 2018

Man on the Moon II: The Legend of Mr. Rager - Kid Cudi, 2010

Man on the Moon II: The Legend of Mr. Rager - Kid Cudi, 2010

Mixtape of the Decade: Nostalgia, Ultra - Frank Ocean, 2011

 
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Other Great Mixtapes from the 2010’s:

Kush & OJ - Wiz Khalifa, 2010.

Kush & OJ - Wiz Khalifa, 2010.

Firday Night Lights - J. Cole, 2010.

Firday Night Lights - J. Cole, 2010.

Detroit - Big Sean, 2012.

Detroit - Big Sean, 2012.

R&B Song of the Decade: Novacane - Frank Ocean, 2011

 
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Other Great R&B Songs from the 2010’s:

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Best Non-Rap/Non-R&B Song of the Decade: Stars, fun., 2011

 
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Other Great Non-Rap/Non-R&B Songs from the 2010’s:

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Best Film I’ve Watched this Decade: Silence of the Lambs, 1991

 
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Other Great Films I’ve Watched in the 2010’s:

American Beauty, 1999

American Beauty, 1999

First They Killed My Father, 2017

First They Killed My Father, 2017

Silver Linings Playbook, 2012

Silver Linings Playbook, 2012

Eyes Wide Shut, 1996

Eyes Wide Shut, 1996

Good Will Hunting, 1997

Good Will Hunting, 1997

Back to the Future, 1985

Back to the Future, 1985

Akira, 1988

Akira, 1988

Baraka, 1992

Baraka, 1992

Adventureland, 2009

Adventureland, 2009

Best Television Series I’ve Watched this Decade: The Cosby Show, 1984

 
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Other Great Television Series I’ve Watched in the 2010’s:

How To Make It In America, 2010

How To Make It In America, 2010

A Different World, 1987

A Different World, 1987

The Office, 2005

The Office, 2005

Best Book I’ve Read this Decade: Not Fade Away: A Short Life Well Lived - Laurence Shames and Peter Barton, 2004

 
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Other Great Books I’ve Read in the 2010’s:

The Opposite of Loneliness - Marina Keegan, 2014

The Opposite of Loneliness - Marina Keegan, 2014

Fresh Off the Boat - Eddie Huang, 2013

Fresh Off the Boat - Eddie Huang, 2013

Eleanor & Park - Rainbow Rowell, 2014

Eleanor & Park - Rainbow Rowell, 2014

Best Sports Moments of the 2010’s:

Lakers 16th (Kobe’s 5th) NBA championship, 2010

Lakers 16th (Kobe’s 5th) NBA championship, 2010

Philip Rivers’ 14 point 4th quarter comeback on Thursday Night Football at Arrowhead, 2018

Philip Rivers’ 14 point 4th quarter comeback on Thursday Night Football at Arrowhead, 2018

Duke’s 5th (Coach K’s 5th) National Title, 2015

Duke’s 5th (Coach K’s 5th) National Title, 2015

Me Throughout the Years: